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7 Habits of a Happy Expat by Margarita Gokun Silver

By Administrator at April 09, 2010 23:16
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I really agreed with Margarita Gokun Silver about the attitudes for Expats


1.  Happy Expats Are Intensely Curious

Coming to another land is always interesting.  You get to learn about the culture, you get to experience a different way of life, you get to try new foods, and maybe even new sports and new hobbies.  A whole new world opens up for you.  Being curious around this new world leads to happiness.


2.  Happy Expats Accept Others As They Come, They Don’t Judge, And They Don’t Try To Change People To Their Liking

No matter how much things may bother them and no matter how much they may disagree, a judgmental attitude never gets anyone anywhere.  Accepting that things run the way they do is the key to happiness.


3.  Happy Expats Look At Everything As An Amazing Learning Experience

Someone once said that “life is always offering us new beginnings, it’s up to us whether to take them or not.”  I don’t remember who said it but it’s an empowering way to look at what’s available to us at every moment of every day.  And especially to those of us who get this incredible opportunity to not only travel but also live in different places.


4.  Happy Expats Find Opportunities Wherever They Are And They Don’t Lament Those They’ve Left Behind

Life of an expatriate consists of one move after another.  Sometimes we know when that move is coming and sometimes we don’t (in these days of “the crisis” many of us will move suddenly).  Opportunities that were open to us in one place may not be available in another.  But remember “life is always offering us new beginnings…” There will be new opportunities, so do you want to spend the time lamenting about what you left behind or do you want to spend the time listening and looking out for what’s opening up for you?


5.  Happy Expats Know That Feeling Sad At Times Is Part Of The Game

A happy expat doesn’t mean a giddy-at-all-times expat.  A happy expat means also an expat who knows that being sad at times is part of the expatriate experience.  Being sad about leaving friends behind; being sad about leaving your family far away; being sad about quitting a job or changing a career … this list can go on and on.  The difference between a happy expat and an expat that’s not happy is that for the former the sadness is something that’s natural and something that doesn’t take over your life and makes a victim out of you.


6.  Happy Expats Share

Sharing means so many different things.  It may mean sharing with your friends and family when you are sad – going through the stressful times alone is no fun.  It may mean sharing with a coach – a right client-coach partnership will undoubtedly make your expatriate experience richer.  It may also mean  sharing your experience with others, helping those like you find the best facets of their expatriate journeys.


7.  Happy Expats Stay Clear Of Criticism, Sulking, And Stonewalling

It is so very easy to blame someone else in your misfortunes.  It’s easy to say that everything around you is horrible; it’s easy to sulk in your misery when you’ve convinced yourself that it’s not up to you; and it’s easy to put a barrier between you and the place you live in.  Yet there is no way you are going to be happy where you live, if you consistently engage in criticism, sulking, and stonewalling.  Staying clear of those attitudes will help you be happier.
 
 
Margarita Gokun Silver is the Founder of the Global Coach Center, a coaching firm that specializes in Cross-Cultural Coaching and Training for expatriates, multinational managers, global leaders, and those involved in multicultural relationships, either at work or at home. For more information on Global Coach Center please visit http://www.GlobalCoachCenter.com
 

Detetive Mike on Amazon.com

By Administrator at March 10, 2010 02:07
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The Mission of Detective Mike: Moving Abroad

by Simone T Costa Eriksson and Ana Serra

 

Buy now on Amazon

 (Paperback - Feb. 14, 2010)

 

FIGT, a fantastic experience!

By Administrator at March 10, 2010 01:26
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The new book for Expatriate children Detective Mike by Simone T. Costa Eriksson and Ana Serra

was first presented at Families in Global Transition (FIGT) Conference in Houston, Texas 2010.

   It was a fantastic conference with so many interesting speakers, writers, researchers, educators, etc.

For me it confirmed that paying attention to families and children during expatriation is not only the right thing to do, but also it can help companies to save a lot of money!

Participation in the Families in Global Transition conference 2010 in Texas

By Administrator at February 18, 2010 00:29
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The workshop about
´The Impact of Expatriation on Children´

 by Simone T. Costa Eriksson
has been selected by the 10th Families in Global Transtiion (FIGT) conference
March 4-6 2010, Houston, Texas, USA 

Find out more…

Are you an Expat in Campinas, Brazil?

By Administrator at February 17, 2010 20:27
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We are now 150 members in Campinas Expat Community!

This is the right place to meet other expats as well as Brazilian with international experience.

Join us now at http://groups.yahoo.com/group/CampinasExpatCommunity/

Articles about the Brazilian Culture

By Simone at February 17, 2010 20:19
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Our site has a few articles about various aspects of the Brazilian culture follow this link http://www.interculturalplus.com/us/events.html

The Brazilian Way of Working

By Administrator at February 12, 2010 01:34
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by Simone Costa Eriksson & Rosângela Portella

At the first sight, the Brazilian culture can easily be seen as one. However, the complexity of the cultural aspects involved makes it difficult for most expatriates to pinpoint the direct cultural origin of typical social behaviors. Let’s take, for instance, the tendency to mix up professional and social relationships at the workplace, and try to explain this common behavior which can often challenge foreigner professionals’ doing business in Brazil. As a Swedish executive once told me ´Brazilians at work usually value more how friends they are with someone than how professional that person is´; in other words, relationships are extremely important compared to other cultures. Our attempt to explain such behavior must explore the unique aspect of the Brazilian culture.

Brazil´s geographic dimensions, its multiethnic origins, as well as its educational & social-economic history contribute to the diversity found within this continental-sized country. To show how complex the Brazilian culture is, we could draw a sort of ‘the Brazilian Cultural Matrix’. On one axis there would be 3 main cultural aspects (ethnic, regional, social-educational classes). To make things even more complicated, each of these cultural aspects would be further divided: the ethnic aspect, for example, could be explored by the two main waves of immigration which had major influence in the Brazilian culture: the first wave would be the Portuguese and Africans (who met the Indians already here!)as being the first ethnic mix, the basis of the Brazilian culture, followed by the three unique mixes between these three main ethnical groups, the ‘mulatos’, ‘caboclos’, e ´mamelucos´. The second wave of immigration occurred in the 19th century with the Europeans (mostly Germans & Italians) and, in the beginning of the 20th century, the Japanese.

So, how can our ethnic origin explain the Brazilian behavior of favoring relationships at work? In the Iberia region of Europe (Portugal & Spain) in the 15th and 16th century, as opposed to the France and English, the major traders, navigators, while they were away conquering new lands always left their business in the hands of trustful family members. There was even a saying ´Friends get everything, while enemies follow the Law´. All the money and social status achieved by this new bourgeoisie class allowed them to buy social titles (and marriages) in order to move up the social ladder into the aristocracy and noble classes. The Portuguese cultural characteristic of mixing between the public and private, business and friendship remained. In order for foreign professionals to succeed and lead in a typical Brazilian working environment, they must understand and deal with the fragile borderline between the private and professional work relationships.

About the author

 

Simone T. Costa Eriksson
MBA, Psychologist & Intercultural Coach

 

Brazilian, psychologist (member of the British Psychological Society) experience of 13 years abroad (USA, Sweden, Poland, and Italy), most of the time, as an expatriate mother with two children in an intercultural marriage. Professional experience in international recruitment, headhunting & customer service. Currently, holds seminars and workshops for HR professionals, for expatriate families & children, for international schools and for Brazilian working abroad.

 

 

 

Universal Consensus Global Alliance Member

Simone T. Costa Eriksson is a member of the Universal Consensus created by Denise Hummel

www.universalconsensus.com